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My name is Monica and I want to talk to you.
Our deepest fear is...

ingravidio said: Freeze! You’re under arrest for being so nice and cute. Copy this message to 10 other blogs that you think are beautiful and deserve it. Keep the game going and make others feel beautiful xx :)

Wow haha that “freeze” scared me but then I was like “Oh, that’s the cutest thing ever” thank you Lucie <3

Anonymous said: dear friend, you're right shes not worth getting mad about. i highly doubt we will be friends any more. i'm cutting her out of my life. shes way too negative and shes brings out my bitchy side which i hate. i hope she doesn't turn up to my party but if she does i'm just going to be really nice to her. kill 'em with kindness ;) love always, charlie xx

Dear Charlie,

If she has a negative influence on you, then you’re doing the right thing. If she does show up to your party, don’t let her make you feel bad. Just have fun with your friends. :) 

Always yours,


Anonymous said: dear friend, eurgh sorry i'm just so angry i need to vent. I DIDNT EVEN KNOW SHE HAD A BOYFRIEND AND I'VE NEVER MET HIM AND SHE JUST ASSUMES SHE CAN BRING HIM TO MY BIRTHDAY PARTY. i realised she basically spent our whole friendship talking shit about my friends and being mean about everyone. shes fucking toxic and i wish i didn't have to see her again!!!!!!! love always, your super mad charlie x

Dear Charlie,

It sucks finding out that someone who is supposed to be your best friend is not who you thought she was. Something like that happened to me and another friend of mine. We realized that we had been her best friends but she was never our best friend. And once I stop trusting someone, I can never trust them again. 

I think you shouldn’t waste your time on being mad bc of something like this, although it pretty much affects you.

I don’t know if you and her will ever make up or you will stop being friends, but whatever you decide to do, you will know it was the right thing. I hope she apologizes for what she did and starts being your real friend.

Always yours,



On the road - Win a magazine by schorlemädchen on Flickr.

Anonymous said: dear friend, i had this friend. we were really close and i thought she was my best friend but the past few weeks just stopped talking to me. i invited her to my birthday party because i want to see her before we leave for uni. she messaged me on snapchat (even tho she could text me or facebook me? like who uses snapchat messenger?) saying "i'm probably going to bring my boyfriend to your party" like you aren't even going to ask if thats cool? it was so rude and i'm so mad!! love always charlie x

Dear Charlie,

It is  nice of you to want to spend time with her before uni. But it seems like she didn’t put much thought into it. She can’t just tell you that she’ll bring someone you don’t know to your party. First of all, she should have told you about that bf before. And what she did, it’s absolutely wrong. Who does that? Wow I don’t even know what to say. You have every right to be mad.

Always yours, 



Palermo, Sicily by hello it’s joe on Flickr.

peacock by simplejustin on Flickr.

Anonymous said: dear friend, i'm super tired today. i woke up at 6am and couldn't get back to sleep. i was so tired i just lay there listening to the rain and i let the cat snuggle in my bed. it was so peaceful. i'm going to miss being able to do that when i go to uni. it sounds bad but sometimes i think i'll miss my cat more than my family. love always, charlie xx

Dear friend,

I am so so sorry for the late reply but I haven’t been on the internet for two days. :( 

I totally understand you. Before my cat died, I loved spending time with him. He was so queit and peaceful and he would always make me feel relaxed. And my family, haha, it is never quiet and peaceful with them so yeah, you sometimes need time alone, or more specifically, without people around. So don’t feel bad about it. :)

Always yours,



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gelato attack! by roboppy on Flickr.
It’s a lot easier to be angry at someone than it is to tell them you’re hurt.
Tom Gates (via eiffeled)

(Source: hellanne, via cruciarius)


untitled by porcelainprisms on Flickr.
Don’t be so hard on yourself! It’s not going to help anything, I promise, I’ve learned the hard way. Be gentle and forgiving to yourself and learn to accept yourself. You are worthy of love. You are worthy of respect. You deserve to be happy.
Me, Reflection on Part One (of The Buddha Walks into a Bar)

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